Can I see Jesus?

Am I looking for Jesus in those around me?  What is Jesus calling me to do?


Prayer of Fr. Mychal Judge

Lord, take me where you want me to go.
Let me meet whom you want me to meet.
Tell me what you want me to say.
And keep me out of your way.

Fr. Mychal Judge was the chaplain of the New York Fire Department, who died in the collapse of World Trade Center on September 11, 2001.


Treat everyone with equal kindness;

never be condescending,

but make real friends with the poor.

–Romans 12:16

by[Image of sculpture Christ the Beggar Timothy P. Schmalz]


Between Magadan and Dalmanutha


Little light in the dark woods

After Jesus multiplied the loaves and fishes, he and his disciples retired to either Magadan or Dalmanutha, depending on which gospel you read. No one knows where the places are or whether they are even specific places  or just a description of a place (e.g. a wooded place).

Reading the gospels reminds me that I have a call.  But upon reflection, I often have the feeling of being lost–like being between two unknown places, Magadan and Dalmanutha.  Where am I?  Where am I going? What is my call?


My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end. Nor do I really know myself, and the fact that I think that I am following your will does not mean that I am actually doing so.  

But I believe that the desire to please you does in fact please you.  And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing. I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire. And I know that if I do this you will lead me by the right road though I may know nothing about it.  

Therefore will I trust you always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death. I will not fear, for you are ever with me, and you will never leave me to face my perils alone—Thomas Merton


Jesus, help me to trust you through the hard times that may come.  Let me be led by the light of your love.  Let your holy saints be my inspiration to follow you without concern for what happens to me.

Critical Time of Waiting

In his homily for the first Sunday of Advent, Fr. Joe Pelligrino uses his experience of comforting those in hospitals to make a profound analogy between the atmosphere in a critical care waiting room and the time of Advent.  In the critical care waiting room. . .

Family members and friends can’t do enough for each other.  No one is proud.  No one stands on ceremony or protocol.  Petty disputes and hurts are nowhere to be found.  Perhaps there are several patients whose family and friends are waiting in that room. These complete strangers feel bound in their shared hope for their loved ones.  Class and race melt away.  Each person in that room is a parent or spouse or child or close friend of the suffering one first.  He or she is a white, black or Asian, a blue collar or white collar worker second.  Everyone in the waiting room pulls for each other.  If one family receives good news, there is hope and joy for all.  If another family hears sad news, everyone in the room feels their grief. 

 In the critical care waiting room, the world changes.  Vanity and pretense vanish.  The entire universe is focused on the doctor’s next report.  All eyes continually glance at the door.  The critical care waiting room is a place of hoping.  It is a place of anticipating, a place of expecting.  It is a place of Advent.

This is Advent for us–waiting for the news we hope for but also concerned with what we may dread:

  • A time for us to renew our concern for the most fundamental values of our lives. 
  • A time for us to face the fact of mortality–of those we love and our own.   
  • A time to reflect on how our lives are bound up with those we love and how we are called to be attentive to their needs. 
  • A time even to become aware of how we are called to be attentive to the needs of all we meet–just as those in the waiting room realize they are not alone in their concerns.


Dear Lord Jesus, help me to use this time of waiting for your birth to become more like you.  You have come before me and you will come again.  But for now enable me to sense your daily presence in my life and to be your presence for those around me.  Help me to make Advent a time to change my life forever.

Teach by Your Life

Francis and ChildPope Francis reminds us that what we do speaks louder than what we say:  “We need to remember that all religious teaching ultimately has to be reflected in the teacher’s way of life, which awakens the assent of the heart by its nearness, love and witness.”  There are many who need someone to see themselves as loved.  We can fill their need just as you fill our need.


Dear Lord,  please help me to be more aware of the needs and feelings of others than of my own.  Help me respond to them as you would have me do.

The Joy of the Gospel

 Pope Francis in his encyclical The Joy of the Gospel warns against the temptation to “accomplish” something instead of encountering others:

Listen UnderstandOften it is better simply to slow down, to put aside our eagerness in order to see and listen to others, to stop rushing from one thing to another and to remain with someone who has faltered along the way. At times we have to be like the father of the prodigal son, who always keeps his door open so that when the son returns, he can readily pass through it. (46)

Jesus calls us to remain open, receptive to those whom he loves.  He calls us to pay the most attention to his friends who have the fewest paying attention to them.  “We have to state, without mincing words, that there is an inseparable bond between our faith and the poor. May we never abandon them.” (48)

These “poor” are those who are poor in worldly goods and often also those who are poor in spiritual goods.  Pope Francis encourages us to pay attention to those who do not have the emotional and spiritual support that the need to understand their lives and their connection to God:

If something should rightly disturb us and trouble our consciences, it is the fact that so many of our brothers and sisters are living without the strength, light and consolation born of friendship with Jesus Christ, without a community of faith to support them, without meaning and a goal in life. (49)

If we act with love to support those who need support, we show them Jesus’ love and make them conscious of the meaningfulness of  their lives and God’s love for them.


Dear Jesus, help me be aware of those who need a kind word and a listening ear.  Help me to listen to them because you listen to me and I have listened to you.

No Strangers in the Body of Christ

Often I am so wrapped up in my concerns and plans that I forget that I am just one of the members of the Body of Christ.  Although I sometimes remember to care for others, I do not keep constant attention to Jesus’ calling.  

Fr. Joe Pellegrino in his Easter homily reminds us of our calling to those who are struggling with life’s challenges:

SingleParentThere are many poor people in the United States.  Many of them are single mothers or single fathers.  They  wonder how they can care for their children with such limited incomes.  When they experience members of the community reaching out to them, making sure their children are treated the same as all the other children, helping them when they need emergency baby sitting, etc, these people don’t just have immediate problems solved, they experience Jesus Christ present in their neighbors, friends and sometimes, in total strangers.  Then they realize that there are no strangers in the Body of Christ.

We are Catholic when we are so united to Jesus Christ that His death and His life radiate through every action of our lives.  You see, we are not Catholic for ourselves.  We are Catholic for others.


Dear Jesus, help me to remember that everyone I meet is dear to you and that I can bring them closer to you (or take them farther from you) with how I treat them.  Help me to move beyond my personal concerns and enable me to be open to the concerns of all those I meet.

I Can Be Better Than This

In his homily for the Third Sunday of Lent, Fr. Joe Pellegrino ask why the woman at the well is changed so quickly by Jesus’ talk with her.  Here are some of his observations:

WomanAtTheWellHe told her that He knew she had been immoral and was continuing her sinful ways.

This caused the woman to change her life.  Why?  It doesn’t make sense that a Samaritan woman would be so  impressed with the accusations of a Jewish man.  There must be more to this.  Jesus’ tone must have conveyed His concern for her.  She must have felt that she was being addressed as a person, not as an object of scorn by Jews or even by men in general.  Jesus’ tone must have said to her, “My dear woman, you can be better than this.”  He speaks to her heart and her heart turns to Him.

You can be better than this.  Recently that phrase has been bouncing inside my head, not just as something I say to others, but as something I say to myself.  I can be better than this.

He makes us want to be better than we are. His overpowering love gives us the courage to change our lives and to embrace His Life. The blood that poured from his wounds on the cross has ignited our bodies with the fire of his Love.

“You can be better than this,” He says to us in the tender, warm voice of Love.

And we will be better.


Dear Jesus, I know that I frequently fail to do the best I can.  I ask for your help to continually try to do better, to become more like you, to love without any expectation of return, to help those who cannot help me, to be your light to a dark world.

As I Do to the Least . . .

ReachingOutFr. Mark E. Thibodeaus, S.J. provides a Ignatian approach to those of the Body of Christ whom we tend to overlook. These lines are from his book Reimagining the Ignatian Examen:

As I Do to the Least . . .

Just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me.

–Matthew 25:40

I ask God, “Of the people I encountered today, who was the most outcast? The weakest and most fragile? The most difficult for me to be around? In my imagination, I replay the moment when I encountered that person.

I speak to God about my observations. I tell God my thoughts, words, and actions toward that person. I ask God for forgiveness for any thoughts, words, or actions that were unkind or uncharitable. I thank God for the moments when I seemed to have the right disposition.


Dear Jesus, help me to be aware of how I affect those around me.  Help me to be sensitive to those who have no one caring for them, to those who seem to be uncaring, to those whom you care for as much as you care for me.

Forgive me for the times that I do not notice those who need a kind word or caring attention.

Our Contibution to the Poor’s Suffering


Syrian Refugee Camp

Pope Francis reminded economic and political leaders of the world that we all are responsible for the suffering of the poor and that we must act to relieve that suffering.

We must never allow the culture of prosperity to deaden us, to make us incapable of feeling compassion at the outcry of the poor, weeping for other people’s pain, and sensing the need to help them, as though all this were someone else’s responsibility and not our own. Weeping for other people’s pain does not only mean sharing in their sufferings, but also and above all realizing that our own actions are a cause of injustice and inequality.  Once we realize this, we become more fully human, since responsibility for our brothers and sisters is an essential part of our common humanity.


Dear God, help me to cure my indifference about the conditions of the poor. Help me to keep those in need in my mind, my heart, my prayers.  Help me to work for the welfare and respect of those who are in need in my community, in my country, and in the world.

Jesus, Do I follow you out of love?

faith-and-actionFather Phil Bloom of St. Mary of the Valley Church in Mount Vernon, Washington, reminds us to ask about the motive behind our actions:

Someone asked Mother Teresa, “What will we be judged on?” She responded, “I believe that when we die and the time comes for us to be judged, God will not ask how many good things we did in our lives, but only with how much love we did them.”

In another homily Fr. Bloom admits that he sometimes acts out of obligation rather than out of love. Often we have to admit that we too feel an obligation to act in accord with Jesus’ commands and sigh with relief when that difficult task is over. I have to admit there are times that I give a sigh of relief that I have completed another “task” and now can finally return to my own personal concerns.  That is when I need to remind myself to stop for a moment and ask what my real motive is.

But there is a difference between the kind of relief we feel after a difficult job that seems to have no result and the relief we feel when, for example, we finally get the rambunctious kids to bed and can relax and look at them sleeping and realize that, for one more day, we have taken good care of them just out of love.


Dear Jesus, give me the presence of mind to remember your love for me and to love those whom I see, those whom I talk with, those whom I touch in any way throughout the day.

Lesson from Saint Teresa’s Life

Father James Martin, SJ, reminds us that our lives are not the only ones that have difficulties, that even those who have been closest to God, who have be acknowledged as saints, have had a difficult time living out their faith.

St. TeresaThe unrelieved spiritual aridity of Blessed Teresa of Calcutta makes her earthly accomplishments all the more remarkable. Her letters also offer some lessons to believers. First, they are a reminder that what could be termed radical Christianity is not simply the province of those called saints. Many imagine that since the saints enjoy privileged access to God in prayer, their work is somehow easier, lighter–a mistaken view that excuses the average believer from striving for sanctity. Instead, Mother Teresa’s life reminds us that holiness is a goal for all believers, even those given to doubt. Second, her letters remind us that dryness, darkness and doubt are natural parts of the spiritual life, whether ordinary believer or extraordinary saint. Finally, they remind us that fidelity does not depend solely on feelings or emotions.


Dear God, please take my faith as weak as it is and strengthen it so that I can trust you to take my life where you want it to go and not worry about what you will bring me tomorrow.  Only when I trust in you can I live my life for other and not to constantly worry about my own problems.